My MOM signed everything the same way... it will be my 5th Mother's day without my mother this year. I do have a wonderful MIL but as you know it's not the same. May you find some peace this Sunday. ♥️⚘️♥️
It's been a decade since my mom died and I still have complicated feelings about it. She had ALS and her diagnosis happened right as I was going through my divorce. I knew she was disappointed in me for that, and we just didn't talk much in the year between her diagnosis and death. And prior to that, we had a not-great relationship. When I was blogging in the early days, she specifically told me that she didn't want to read my writing. But we had some good moments and I know she was doing her best, just like the rest of us.
Yes I remember this piece and it deeply affected me then and even more so now today. My mom is amazingly still kicking it, and is sharp as a tack. My dad on the other hand is not doing well at all with moderate dementia and chronic sciatic pain. My mom is taking care of him essentially by herself. I know I take after my mom in temperament and personality, I’m hoping I take after her in genetics more than my dad whose side of the family all had/have dementia. Thank you for sharing this piece again.
I think about genetics too, and feel a lot of fear around declining slowly at a “young” age like my mom. My dad, however, is in his late 80s and is only now starting to decline cognitively.
Yes, I love these two photos—thanks for noticing! I found them accidentally by doing a search of my photos, and these two came up side by side like it was a re-creation. I’d never seen them together before.
Reading this in the wrong time zone, sitting in my childhood bedroom made me tear up and laugh ❤️. Not the easiest trip (no one died), but your post is a good reminder to value your folks while they’re still here (even when they drive you crazy).
So sorry for your loss. My father passed a little over a year ago, and you captured how raw and surreal the days right afterward are. Thank you for this.
My MOM signed everything the same way... it will be my 5th Mother's day without my mother this year. I do have a wonderful MIL but as you know it's not the same. May you find some peace this Sunday. ♥️⚘️♥️
Thank you, Laura. May you find peace as well.
It's been a decade since my mom died and I still have complicated feelings about it. She had ALS and her diagnosis happened right as I was going through my divorce. I knew she was disappointed in me for that, and we just didn't talk much in the year between her diagnosis and death. And prior to that, we had a not-great relationship. When I was blogging in the early days, she specifically told me that she didn't want to read my writing. But we had some good moments and I know she was doing her best, just like the rest of us.
I hope you have a peaceful Sunday. 💞
❤️ Thank you for sharing about your mom. I love when we can look back on difficult seasons with grace.
Love this story. Laughter and tears. Thank you for sharing it again. From, A MOM 🌷
😊 Thanks for faithfully reading and commenting, Nicole!
Yes I remember this piece and it deeply affected me then and even more so now today. My mom is amazingly still kicking it, and is sharp as a tack. My dad on the other hand is not doing well at all with moderate dementia and chronic sciatic pain. My mom is taking care of him essentially by herself. I know I take after my mom in temperament and personality, I’m hoping I take after her in genetics more than my dad whose side of the family all had/have dementia. Thank you for sharing this piece again.
❤️Thank you, Steve.
I think about genetics too, and feel a lot of fear around declining slowly at a “young” age like my mom. My dad, however, is in his late 80s and is only now starting to decline cognitively.
I too fucking hate how life is supposed to go on after people you deeply care about die. Love and hugs to you and others who are missing their mom. ❤️
Love you, Libby!
❤️ I love the photos. She looked at you the same loving way regardless of what age you were.
Yes, I love these two photos—thanks for noticing! I found them accidentally by doing a search of my photos, and these two came up side by side like it was a re-creation. I’d never seen them together before.
❤️ I totally understand this, all of it. I also love the detail about Covid and doing weird things together. Sending love. Love seeing your garden.
Thank you, Mary.
Reading this in the wrong time zone, sitting in my childhood bedroom made me tear up and laugh ❤️. Not the easiest trip (no one died), but your post is a good reminder to value your folks while they’re still here (even when they drive you crazy).
Awwww, thanks, Randy. Say hello to the midwest for me.
So sorry for your loss. My father passed a little over a year ago, and you captured how raw and surreal the days right afterward are. Thank you for this.