Hi, it’s me.
Welcome to my newsletter, Pretend You’re Good At It: personal stories about fear, flailing, and figuring it out, sent weekly on Wednesdays.
I’m trying to unravel my default assumption that everyone else navigates the world with certainty and confidence while I’m out here living life as the Queen of Hesitation & Doubt.
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“How you articulated this crazy beautiful mess is so thoughtful, thank you for trusting this space for your authentic self.” - Pam, a reader
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“I don't know Jen in real life. But I feel like I know Jen in real life. Do you know what I mean? Jen writes about real life. The good, the bad, the ugly and the beautiful. And everything in between. Jen's a storyteller with a humongous heart, a wicked sense of humor and wisdom in spades.” - Steve Goldberg, Earworms and Song Loops
Who the Heck Is Jen Zug?
Hi, it’s me, and this is my garden. I remember capturing this selfie because it was a good hair day, and I only now noticed the smudge of dirt on my forehead from doing my gardening chores. I’ve been using this garden-smudged image as my headshot for a couple of years now, which actually checks out because I’m all about Keeping It Real. Another thing I noticed just now is how much I loved this exact hairstyle when I was 22. There’s something to unpack there.
I’m a writer living in Seattle with very few credentials to prove this claim (PRETENDER!). In some respects, it doesn’t matter – I write because I love writing. But at some point I have to get over my fear and procrastination and earn my spot in the WRITER category of the World Manual of Belonging. Like the REAL stamp on dairy products you buy at the store. Please accept me as your squishy ball of mozzarella.
Other things about me: I’m 52 years old, married 23 years to a man who still makes me laugh, and mother to young adults aged 21 and 19 who are pretty great humans. I work in the nonprofit sector as a communicator and fundraiser, telling stories that humanize people who are experiencing homelessness, addiction, mental health struggles, and more.
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